That “oomph!” Effect: Inexpensive Ways to Get That Celebrity Aura

April 29, 2008 at 6:31 am | In tips |
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Ever wonder how some people just have that “oomph!” effect? Like an aura, or a presence, something you just can’t explain when they’re around? They’re always in the VIP area of the hottest clubs, lines aren’t anything to them, and well, you just get that warm and fuzzy feeling when they talk to you.

It’s called the “halo effect.” People who are best in exuding their best qualities are always looked up on. But think about it, you’re both people … what’s the big difference?

Here are a couple of inexpensive ways to exude that “oomph!” effect.

Smile like you mean it. Notice what you automatically perceive from people with braces. You could instantly presume that they could afford such things. Notice celebrity smiles — they’re always like a toothpaste commercial in the making. It’s never about having perfect teeth, but more on having SPARKLY WHITE teeth. There are various whiteners in the market, plus, having your teeth whitened professionally might sting, but it won’t cost as much as having braces put on.

Godlike stature. Part of the appeal is the height. When you loom over people, they tend to literally look up to you. If you’re a little on the short side, try bigger gestures. Spread your arms, keep your legs apart and what not. Wearing vertical stripes doesn’t hurt either.

Reservation nation. Notice why VIP’s don’t have to fall in line? It’s because they’ve cultivated a large number of contacts over the years as socialites that most things are usually free for ‘em. Plus this doesn’t just apply to clubs, this goes for everything — restaurants, movies even traveling! For restaurants, you call ahead, for movies, you either drop by the theater a few weeks in advance, or try looking for their website. For trips, you could try various booking services. (Remember to tip your waiter!)

Clothes that make the woman. (Or man, fine!) Make sure your clothes are clean, well-pressed, creases (if you like office pants / pant-suits to make you look taller) are straight and buttons aren’t missing. Look out for loose threads and tears and you’ll look fresh.

Follow these tips and pretty soon you’ll notice people feeling your presence. Finally, and most importantly, it’s the attitude! If you feel like a winner, think like a winner, how does a winner breathe, walk and such, then you’ll be a natural. Smile!

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  1. Great post!

    Comment by Raquel — April 29, 2008 #

  2. I don’t think it’s that easy!

    Comment by iPhoneiDiot — April 30, 2008 #

  3. u forgot bad breath :)

    Comment by sowmya — April 30, 2008 #

  4. Far be it from me to cite Oprah, but I remember once she had a Mexican woman on (of course, a slim, “hot” one, not a regular one, again, far be it from Oprah…), and she said that North American Anglo-Saxon women “trucked along” while Mexican women walked high and elegantly.

    Hogwash of course, but it is true that “the bent-over truck” is certainly less attractive than an erect walk (for men as well as women, of course –the Bill Gates look never did pull the chicks… ;) — We spend so much time sitting, the least we could do is extend our backs when we’re walking!!

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    Comment by adsensestrategiesadsense — May 1, 2008 #

  5. @ Raquel: Thanks!

    @ sowmya: Yes I did! I’ll keep that in mind in case I write something like this again! :)

    Comment by socialclimber — May 1, 2008 #

  6. Good post! You’ve definitely hit target here.

    I deal with “fans” (if you can call them that.. I’m no celebrity) on a regular basis, and do most of these things you’ve listed- they really work. My friend is always commenting on how I’ve got an “aura” that sweeps the entire room, “slapping them all in the face” as he so bluntly put it. And it’s true- everyone notices when I enter a room. (I have my old dance instructors to thank for this lesson in appearance.)

    Comment by Raivyn — May 2, 2008 #

  7. @Raivyn: Wow! Upon reading your post, I just realized something … what’s the similarity between a dancer and a martial artist? They sort of exude some strength with minimal movements, right? I think it’s in the training, dancing teaches confidence, I guess, while martial arts teaches you not to budge. =)

    Comment by socialclimber — May 7, 2008 #

  8. I agree all these are so important! Thanks for the tips…I’m off to call the dentist…it’s time to schedule a whitening.

    Comment by Ashley — May 7, 2008 #

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